Quit Smoking - From a Smoker Who Did
Quit Smoking : From an Ex-Smoker
Please fill out and mail back the survey found at the bottom of this
page!!
Hello reader, it has been called to my attention that this treatment towards quitting smoking
may be unheeding of the sensitivities of some of you out there trying to quit. I would
appreciate any input you may have regarding it’s effectiveness.
William
QUITTING SMOKING THE EASY WAY
You’re dreaming, because there is no easy way to quit smoking!
Do you or someone close to you smoke? Just answer the question, yes or no. If the
answer is no, then you can stop reading. If the answer is yes, then you have a problem.
Now that we have got that out of the way, welcome to the most difficult time of your
life. I hear you saying: “Ah shucks, I can quit the habit with my hands tied behind my
back.” Right! For a majority of people, that is the ONLY way they are going to quit:
where they can’t light the cigarette. Of course there are a few diehards who will stick
their face into the barbecue to get the stupid thing lit. This may be the most important
document you will ever read. It could be a lifesaver - literally.
I believe knowledge is power. In this turorial, I will give you sufficient knowledge
to quit the cigarette habit. It is not only about quitting: it is more about WHY you must
quit. You, as the reader, must believe that I have no ulterior motives for wanting to help
you quit. I’ve already given you this information, so why should I bother? Because I
know from personal experience how deadly smoking really is. And I will do my level
best to help you kick the most seductive habit known to mankind. How will I do this?
By informing you, insulting you, even throwing subtle hints your way, like ‘YOU’RE
KILLING YOURSELF!!’. If you are intelligent, you WILL quit smoking. If you don’t
have a brain in your head, you are just wasting your time reading this: keep on puffing
away!
Do you want to beat the odds? The cigarette companies are betting on your habit.
They are so sure of themselves that they continue to raise the price of cigarettes, banking
on the fact that you are hooked for life. And do you know what? They are probably right
5 out of 7 times. Those are pretty good odds. My name is William. I smoked heavily for
about 10 years. Quit for about 8 months and then went back to 3 packs a day. When I quit
the second time, there was a solid reason: I realized that I was destroying my health and
ultimately self. Not one of these jumping off a ten story building or putting a gun to my
head type of suicides. No, much slower and much more agonizing in the suffering.
Back in the Medievil days, a torcherer who killed the victim too quickly, was himself
torchered and killed: the point being that the torcherer was to put the victim through the
most excruciating pain for the longest period possible, yet keeping him alive. There is a
direct parallel here, boys and girls. Tobacco hurts you in many subtle ways and for the
most part slowly. It may not be intense pain at first, but that is the seductiveness of it. As
some philosophers have noticed, we all start dying the minute we are born: but for most
smokers the process of dying takes on a whole new meaning.
I have heard of people talk about this guy or that lady who smoked until they were 90
years old. These questions enter my mind when I hear this tripe.
- What type of
life did
they have during the last 50 years?
- What type of activity did the smoker enjoy while
they puffed
up a storm?
- How many people around them did they kill off with their second-hand
smoke?
- And while a few may survive, does that mean the majority of us will
also?
If I go to Las Vegas, I can bet my life on two things. I am going to have a great time
and I am going to lose money. Maybe not every time, but in the long run the house always
wins. The statiticians in that town can tell me almost to the penny what my odds are.
The math never changes. When you smoke, (in effect) you ARE going to Las Vegas. You
ARE betting your life. It IS going to be enjoyable. And you ARE going to lose.
Did I say that smoking is enjoyable? OF COURSE I DID, BECAUSE IT IS! But so
is snorting cocaine or doing any other drugs. So is getting drunk every night, if you aren’t
concerned with how you feel the next morning and what you are doing to your liver. And
in a way that’s what this whole problem of smoking is about. If you don’t care how you
are going to feel down the line, why quit? As you puff away, it is literally impossible
to imagine yourself 10 or 20 years from now, unless you watch and learn from the mistakes
of others. Look at a 50 or 60 year old smoker and notice their overall health. Notice
what they do for enjoyment: generally something that involves sitting. How many tennis
players, runners, and soccer players do you see smoking?
Enter the quality of life. If you smoke and are glued to the tube for most of your adult
life, are you really living? The discussion can quickly turn philisophical over just this
point. We see young people covorting at the beach and marvel at all that energy. We
ARE those young people (in our imaginations), but if we attempt to join them, we realize
that it takes too much energy: energy that seems to have drained from our bodies after 15
years of smoking. Does it have to remain that way? No, but it will: it will until you make
the decision that you really want to live. Not just survive, but become as healthy as your
age allows. Your real age, not the artificial age cigs have given you. Make no mistake,
smoking will age you far beyond your years, no matter how healthy you THINK you are.
For the duration of this script, I am going to make your problem my problem. Let’s
not kid ourselves: if you smoke even 1 cigarette a day, you are doing four things. 1) You
are screwing up your health. 2) You are making someone around you (who doesn’t
smoke) uncomfortable and very possibly screwing up their health. 3) You are throwing
away (lots of) money that probably could be put to better use. 4) You are making more
profits for the tobacco companies who in turn are screwing up other peoples health. And
those ‘other people’ are just possibly your sons and daughters or other youths who (like
yourselves) have not been educated as to the ills of the habit.
Do you admit the above facts? You have to, if this is going to do you any good. Think
about it. Pretend you have a small child you love very much. Would you encourage them
to start smoking at 5 years old? How about 10 years old? Unfortunately, some parents
FORCE their children to smoke when they are no older than a week old. And that child
may be FORCED to smoke until the parent quits or the kid leaves the house. Second hand
smoke is in some circles thought to be more deadly to the smokees than for the smoker.
A ‘smokee’ is a nonsmoking person or pet who inhales air filled with someone else’s
smoke.) A recent
conversation with a friend of mine brought out the following facts. Both his mother and
father smoked. Even when he was still being nursed, his mother smoked. He had to put
up with secondhand smoke until he left home, about 18 years. And to this day he has a
sinus problem that he attributes to that constant intake of his parents smoke. A major part
of this tutorial is aimed at convincing you that you are ruining your health and probably
others close to you, including your dog.
Are there benefits to smoking? Of course there are. I smoked for over ten years
(and none of this one cigarette a day crap). It was relaxing: I enjoyed watching the smoke
curl up and around: it gave me something to do with my hands: I thought it made me look
cool, like the movie stars. But are the benefits worth the negatives? Smoking, unlike any
other vice invented by human beings, has such a long term destructive effect, that you
hardly know there is a problem until your doctor tells you that you have emphysema, or
hardening of the arteries, or any one of a plethora of ailements directly associated with
smoking.
Did you know that smoke destroys or lessens the effectiveness of certain vitamins and
minerals in the body?
Let us digress just a little bit. About a year ago I went to a lecture by a doctor who
was selling his own brand of vitamins and minerals. The purpose of the lecture was to
convince
the audience that the food we buy today does not contain a sufficient amount of
vitamins and minerals to sustain a healthy body: this is including fruits and vegetables as
well as the normal fare of bread, meats, and such. Now, I was aware that the good doctor
was pushing his own brand of vitamins, but he also made some very good points. The
soil that most crops are grown in today is severely depleted of a lot of the trace elements
our
body needs, as well as certain vitamins. That means that no matter how ‘good’ we eat,
we are not getting sufficient vitamins and minerals. But we’re not finished yet. I have a
chart that gives all the vitamins and minerals the human body needs to remain healthy.
Next to the vitamin’s beneficial effects are what is termed as ‘anti-vitamins’, substances
that nulify the vitamins’ benefits. Tobacco is one of the major substances that is
classified as an anti-vitamin. If effects the body’s ability to absorb vitamins B-1, B-2,
B-6, B-12, vitamin C and Folic Acid. The chart clearly shows that if you smoke, the
nicotine will virtually eliminate your body’s ability to make use of these vitamins. What
does that tell us? Our body will virtually starve for those essential vitamins if we smoke
to any degree. Does that mean that we are going to instantly die or get deathly ill? No, of
course not. But, weigh the effects over a period of time and you will find that the bodies
of smokers ABSOLUTELY DO deteriate more rapidly than if they had not had the habit.
For one reason or another, you may not have a scale to judge the effects of smoking
over a period of years. In such a case, you must look to others in your age bracket, who
do not smoke. What are they doing? What is their activity level? You will find that a
lot of people your age who have quit, have joined the local gym or YMCA. Or they golf
or walk a lot. It is almost a given that after you quit the habit, you will start to gain
weight. Some people gain a lot more than others. We are thrown into exercising by the
shear necessity of keeping our weight down. After quitting, you will also have more
energy. Exercise also does something else. A lot of people who smoke, do so because
they get keyed up: smoking seems to relax them. Exercise also relaxes you. A long walk
or a good run will wear you down a little: enough so, that the tension is released. You
can become totally relaxed through exercising, naturally. It also lessens the craving you
may have to light one up.
Here is an interesting antedote. Almost everyone remembers their smoking debut:
that first puff. In my case, I had just graduated from high school, a big wrestling stud.
This persona interested a certain young lady of the upper class. Mutual attraction led to
my spending many hours over at her house. To be cool, she would swipe her mom’s
cigarettes and blow smoke rings. One day, the girl, her mom, and I were relaxing and
Mom offers me a cigarette. Hey, I’m cool: sure I’ll have one. And that’s all it took. The
ending to this story is not too cool. I had lost contact with the girl for almost 30 years,
but as chance will have it, met her again. We talked about old times, her family, the
usual. I asked about her mother and she said her mom was great. But mom wasn’t so
great - several months later I received a death card in the mail. Mom, who had given me
my first cigarette, was dead at the age of about 65. The cause: lung cancer. And she
was such a nice lady!
I have a few friends who smoke: not many, but a couple. Every chance that presents
itself, I will make some sneaky comment about the fact that puffing is bad for them. They
immediately throw away their cigarettes and swear to never smoke again. HA, HA,
HA, HA; in your dreams. What they actually do is ignore me (as much as is possible) and
go right on smoking as if I don’t exist. Why do I even bother? Because there is a Chinese
proverb that if you say something enough times, it will become true. And I truly do hope
that these people will quit, and maybe hammering away at them will work. On the other
hand, it is possible that I am accomplishing just the opposite: strengthening their resolve
to continue puffing at all costs. It is very upsetting, because I like them and really do wish
they would quit slowly killing themselves. And that is something you will recognize
also: that people around you who love you would like to see you live to a ripe old age.
Yet there is an undercurrent of frustration, because they see you slowly killing yourself,
and are too considerate to say anything. Actually, I don’t see that as considerate. If I see
someone harming their bodies (or minds for that matter), some inborn response requires
that I remind them of that fact. Sure, I may lose a friend if I am too obnoxious about it.
On the other hand, I would rather lose them now, than have to watch them slowly deteriate
without my ever having said a thing.
I saw a Science Fiction movie a while ago, kind of black humor. It revolved around
a company who guaranteed that they could get their clients to quit smoking. The movie
started out with a guy signing up for the service in order that he could quit smoking. In a
way he wanted to quit, but wasn’t quite ready yet, so he kept sneaking smokes. As with
a number of persons attempting to quit, he relied on a crutch; ie - the company’s guarantee.
It was quite comical: the sneaking a puff where nobody could possibly catch him. But in
the end, he did quit. Why? Because it turned out that the company was serious about
getting him to quit: even to the extent of cutting off one of his wife’s fingers every time
he cheated. There is an interesting parallel here. In real life, your real life, if the the
premise of the cure came down to the threat of bodily harm to yourself or loved ones,
what would you do? Could you quit if a loved one was torchered every time you took
a smoke? Probably, if you saw the threat as real. And yet looking from a slightly
different angle, this may be happening to you at this very moment. In harming yourself,
aren’t you also hurting those around you? Do you think they enjoy watching your health
deteriate? If they don’t smoke, do you think they enjoy watching THEIR health deteriate?
The problem is (and I can’t stress this enough) that a smoker’s health doesn’t take a
nosedive: it is a slow and methodical grinding away, so slow as to not be noticable.
Take a rock on the seashore: what can possibly wear it down? Sand and water. From
one day to the next there is no detectible change in the rock, but given enough time the
rock becomes - sand.
Hydrogenguy is currently circulating a questionaire, asking smokers and ex-smokers
specific questions pertaining to why they smoke, what benefits they feel there are, and
many other things pertaining to the habit. The questions are at the end of this page:
http://www.hydrogenguy.com/quitsmok.htm If you like, print them out and send them
to a smoking friend and also to us and we will post the responses at a later date.
KICKING THE HABIT
There are at least a zillion claims out there, that tell you they can help you quit in three
easy steps, or four, or whatever. The reality is there are NO easy steps to quitting
permanently. Some programs will work for a while: then they stop working. I do not
encourage drugs of any kind for several reasons. First you become dependent on the
drugs, and second, you are not really quitting, just trading one bad habit for another. I
admit the patch or pills may work for some people for a while, but in the long run, the
only way to quit is to QUIT!!
When I quit the second time, I tossed the cigs in the fireplace and never looked back.
I’m not saying that it was easy: it was extremely difficult. Especially the first month or
so. On the other hand, I have talked to people that quit without any problem at all. At
least that’s what they SAY. I wonder.
ACTUALLY QUITTING
Below are 8 different methods I would encourage you to consider in attempting to quit:
- 1) Cold Turkey - Destroy your supply of cigs and never touch another. This is
probably the hardest to do, but it is one of the best ways of quitting. You have to do a
mental thing to yourself. Refuse, absolutely refuse to consider your having a cigarette.
At any time. And stick to it.
- 2) Down Limit - Set a goal and stick to it. Twenty cigs the first day, nineteen the
second, eighteen the third and so on.
- 3) Two Puffs - Light up and take one or two drags, then put it out until the urge
overtakes you again. Light the same cig up, a couple more drags, and again put it out.
I watched a friend of mine (who was trying to quit) doing this one day: I’d never seen
it before.
- 4) Date Setting - Set a date on which you absolutely will not touch another cigarette.
Not very effective, because you may tend to keep pushing the date up.
- 5) Get Sick - Smoke so many cigarettes at one sitting that you get physically ill: if you
puke, so much the better. Will this work? I have no idea, but in the old days if a father
caught his kids smoking, that is sometimes exactly what they did: forced the kid to smoke
a pack or two at one time, just to get him sick. And it sometimes did produce a nonsmoker
for life.
- 6) Auto-Hypnotism - Auto-hypnosis is basically saying something to yourself over
and over when you are in a relaxed state. Here you will make up standard phrases and
repeat them again and again just before you fall off to sleep. It is important that you
believe the statements to be true: such as “smoking is damaging my health”.
- 7) Fine Yourself - Every time you light up (after you have officially quit), pay out
$1, $5, whatever to your church or for community benefits. And stick to fining yourself
for every cigarette.
- 8) Make yourself do something you would really rather not do. Force yourself to run
around the block if you light one up; or do twenty situps; or stand in the middle of the
freeway buck-naked during rush-hour (just kidding).
- 9) Reward Yourself - For every day you remain smokefree, treat yourself to something
pleasant. (Be carefull here to not treat yourself to something TOO pleasant, such as
pastries or candy.)
- And if you are really really desparate, call Jackie at about 2:00AM in the morning
and ask for advice.
All the above “tricks” have only one end result in mind: to quit the habit. There are
probably hundreds of other ways to entice yourself into a healthier life style. If they are
legal, try them.
No matter what path you choose, keep a log or diary and write down your feelings and
mental state and the reasons why you wanted to quit. And any time you feel that you can’t
exist another second without that cancer stick, read that diary. You will notice that the
reasoning behind your quitting has not changed in the least bit. What IS changing is your
willpower and resolve. You must constantly remind yourself that you have quit for
long-range reasons, not the immediate gratification those puffs will give you.
The above methods may or may not appeal to you. But we are not really concerned
with what you LIKE, are we? WHATEVER WORKS, that is the name of the game.
If you find one method is not working, try another. And if that fails, try another approach.
Within reason, the only thing you should concern yourself with is the end result.
Did I say quitting the habit was hard? Nah, it’s easy. For the first minute, 5 minutes,
maybe even half an hour. What is difficult is to remain abstaining for ever and ever.
That is where certain tricks come into play. Tell your friends that you are quitting and
that if you ask them for a cig, that they are not to give you one. Make them promise. If
you have friends that smoke, try to remain outdoors while they smoke. Better yet, try to
get THEM to go outside when they light up. Stay out of smoke-filled rooms such as bars
and poolhalls. If someone else in your household smokes, you have a very serious
problem. Sit down and discuss it with them and if they don’t wish to quit, ask them
to be considerate
of your wishes and to at least smoke in a closed off room or even better outside.
(I am living in California, the state that has just barred smoking in most stores and
restaurants. Bowling alleys are also included: one such closed it’s doors on the premise
that the business dried up because people wanted to smoke while bowling.)
I have got into arguments, even got a divorce, over people smoking around me.
You, also, will find that when you quit, you will make new friends: more than not,
friends who don’t smoke or at least don’t smoke around you. You may disagree, but
if you think that you can be around other people smoking while you are trying to quit,
I have a bridge to sell you. It is extremely taxing to be breathing second hand smoke
and not be able to light one up yourself. You will also discover that giving up cigs is
a lifetime affair. The first month or two is the hardest, but even after years of having
quit, you will find yourself thinking of lighting up. Only then can you fully understand
the addictiveness of smoking. My hope in your reading this essay, is not to discourage
you, but to inform you so that you are prepared for the problems that confront you.
Mini-crutches are alright. I previously have stated that I am not in favor of drugs
in quitting. But I feel (a personal opinion) that a quitter should have something to chew
on. Something that is not detrimental to your health, but that can take place of the
smoking. There are a lot of substitutes: gum, sugar or sugarless (no nicotine gums);
Life-Savers come both ways also; toothpicks, they even come flavored; raisins and
currents; sunflower seeds; trail mix, a combination of dried fruits and nuts. The new
kid on the block is wolfberries. They look like red raisins, but have a taste all their
own. Grown in China and imported, they are very nutritious, practically a foodgroup
in themselves. The list goes
on and on. I knew a guy who had quit and gotten into the habit of chewing whole
sunflower seeds: you always knew he had been there from all the husks strewn all
over. The point is that one of the tricks to quitting is to have something that keeps
your mouth occupied. It DOES help.
FAMOUS QUOTATIONS (AND COMEBACKS)
(That we could laugh about if the consequences weren’t so deadly)
- Famous Quotation
“I’m too old to quit.” (When you are in the grave, you are too old to quit.)
- Famous Quotation
“But grandma smoked all her life and lived to be 95 years old.” (For the last 50
years of her life, she just sat in her rocking chair and smoked.)
- Famous Quotation
“I don’t need to quit, I’m healthy as a horse.” (In your dreams: try racing any of the
neighborhood brats around the block. Bet them a dollar and don’t forget your cellphone
to call 911.)
- Famous Quotation
“If I quit, I’ll gain weight.” (Very true: on the other hand, if you don’t quit you will
lose weight - all of it.)
- Famous Quotation
“I won’t stop unless my husband does also.” (That’s easy: divorce him. Then you
will quit and go to a healthclub to make yourself more attractive for the next one.)
- Famous Quotation
“If I quit, I’ll have nothing to do with my hands.” (Take up the guitar.)
- Famous Quotation
“Smoking soothes my nerves.” (So does sex, running, and aerobics, all of which are
healthier for you.)
- Famous Quotation
“Smoking keeps me from eating too much.” (True, but that’s because you can’t taste
your food. It is a known fact that after quitting, our senses of taste and smell are revived.)
- Famous Quotation
“I drive a lot and smoking keeps me awake.” (Unproven, except when the hot ash
falls in your lap.)
- Famous Quotation
“How can I quit, when everyone else around me smokes?” (Change the “everyones”
around you or better yet ask them to quit for your sake.)
- Famous Quotation
“The only time I’ll quit, is when my doctor tells me to.” (That’s funny: why pay a
doctor to tell you are ruining your health, when you already know it?)
- Famous Quotation
“I like smoking, why should I give it up.” (You give it up to have a full and healthy
life, dumbo.)
- Famous Quotation
“I’m not hurting anyone but myself, so why should I quit.” (Because somewhere,
someone in the world cares about you and will have to care FOR you while you slowly
deteriate from too many cancer sticks. I, William Carlyle, care about you and hope you
quit.)
- Famous Quotation
“It’s not illegal, so what’s the problem?” (Not quite illegal, but if you follow the court
cases recently handed down, you will see that the cigarette companies are being held
liable for damages from their product.)
And I’m sure you have heard (or used) even better ones, but do they really make any
sense? The choice is simple: you do or do not want to live a healthier life in your later
years: you do or do not want to stop poisoning everyone around you.
THE STOP SIGN
Almost everyone here drives. Let’s say you are going down the road and you come
to a stop sign at a busy street. What to do? Should you stop or go on roaring through,
hoping you won’t get nailed by a semi-truck? Aside from getting a ticket, you could end
up in the hospital (or put someone else in the hospital) and your insurance would be raised
or revoked. All this just for disobeying a stupid sign. Do I even have to remind you that
in continuing smoking you are running stop sign after stop sign. The odds are almost
100% that at one of those ignored signs, you are going to get nailed: nailed into a hospital
bed or a coffin. Coffin to the coffin. And speaking of insurance, once you contract a
smoke related illness, you will not be able to find health insurance to cover it. Have
you considered why the US Government is sueing all the tobacco companies? Because
smoke related illnesses are one of the top costs in Medicare and state medical aid
programs. And insurance companies themselves give various discounts to non-smokers.
HEALTH CLUBS AND THE YMCA
I am a member of the YMCA in California. In locker-room discussions, a lot of the
other members have admitted that they are ex-smokers. Ex-smokers who have woke up
to the damaging effects of puffing and, after quitting, decided to get back in shape
My personal experience is much the same. A varsity wrestler in high school, I started
smoking at 18 (very heavily). This went on for about 10 years and when I did finally
decide to quit for good, I was 28 years old and SO out of shape. Due to the inevitable
weight increase (after I quit), I took up outdoor handball and liked it so much, a move
became necessary to support my habit (of handball, that is). Before health clubs had
become popular, there was the YMCA (in Santa Barbara) boasting 6 (?) handball courts.
My life revolved around the Y for many years. I am presently still a member of the
YMCA in California.
A FRIEND QUITS SMOKING
Several months back, a friend who I have unsubtly been hounding to quit, did. He quit.
He was relying on pills, I believe. I first became aware of it, because he brought it up.
He was proud of the fact and since he knew I was concerned, wanted to let me know.
His lady also smoked and she was also supposed to quit, but they agreed not to do it at the
same time, possibly due to the bad moods associated to the early stages of quitting.
Well, to make a long story short, it only lasted about 2 weeks and I saw my buddy
with a cig in his mouth. I didn’t say anything because there was nothing TO say. He was
one of the statistics mentioned earlier that the tobacco companies bank on. He wanted
to quit ~ kinda. But his reasons and motivations were weaker than the desire to puff.
He also had a lot of stress, job related or personal, I don’t know. Instead of running
around the block several times, his stress reliever is the cancer stick.
About a week later I talked to him and casually mentioned that I noticed he was
smoking again. He admitted it, but said that he was quitting again the following week.
I wished him luck. IMPORTANT NOTICE: IF YOU CAN’T QUIT THE FIRST
TIME, TRY TRY AGAIN. And keep trying until you do. And keep trying. And keep
trying. THE ULTIMATE SIN TO YOUR BODY, IS TO GIVE UP ON TRYING TO
QUIT BECAUSE IT DIDN’T HAPPEN THE FIRST TIME (or second) (or third).
IMPORTANT UPDATE!!! The friend I was just talking about, went upstate to visit a
relative. Sometime during the visit, he keeled over and had to be rushed to emergency
and was shortly operated on, for blockage of arteries to the heart, a problem directly
attributable to smoking. He is fine now, but guess what? He is back to smoking again.
It is soooooo frustrating to try to help people kick the habit, and only be able to watch
them destroying themselves.
PETS AND THE HABIT
We have seen that second-hand smoke is as deadly to surrounding people as the
original smoke is to the smoker. But pets are not affected by smoke because they are
not human. PULEASE!! IF YOUR SMOKE KILLS OTHER PEOPLE, IT WILL
CERTAINLY HARM YOUR PETS AS WELL.
Unless your pet is a rock or alien or something else that doesn’t breath your smoke-filled
air.
CONCLUSION
I’ve jawed long enough. The odds are that this writing on breaking the habit will not
produce instance results. Is that being defeatist? Hardly! But, be realistic: you have been
smoking for (probably) 10 years or better. And you are interested in quitting, or you
wouldn’t have read this thing. But a 10 year habit does not just go away. You have paid
many dollars to watch the smoke curl upward in a shaft of light, to see the glow of the tip
in a darkened room, to damage your bod. You are intelligent enough to see that you ARE
going to have to quit. Timing is important. Pick a time when you expect minimal stress
and go for it. If you need patches or pills or a large mallet across the forehead, you are
still not ready. Your strength must come from within. Remember, your success is
dependant entirely on your desire to increase your health and years. If you are quitting
because someone is badgering you about it, and for no other reason, lots of luck; that is a
difficult road to follow.
What I am most interested in is indelibly inscribing on your frontal lobes that smoking
will affect your quality of life - until you quit, and that you must convince yourself that this
is an absolute truth. And once you have ‘discovered’ this fact, you must not allow
yourself to forget it. Psychologists refer to this as ‘reinforcement’: constantly reminding
ourselves that ‘smoking is bad for our health’, ‘smoking is bad for other people’s
(who we are close to) health, smoking is detrimental to our pet’s health, and on and on.
For how long, do we have to keep convincing ourselves? Basically, as long as we
wish to remain healthy. Because the Joe Camel ads on the Tube, in the newspapers,
and magazines have become very sophisticated. The cigarette companies know how to
pull our strings without us ever realizing it is happening. It is called subliminal
advertising and you and I (and especially our youth) are being manipulated into believing
that there is nothing wrong with smoking: that beautiful people smoke and to be like them,
you must puff away also. I see a major portion of the movies being produced today and
have noticed that even the stars (more and more) are shown smoking at some point during
the flick. Advertising at it’s finest. It is the American Way. With a budget of millions,
what defense is there?
Want to know something? You’ve seen the “Warning” on the side of the pack of
cigarettes, right? Since the government forced the tobacco companies to put that label
on, smoking has drastically decreased. NO SIR, NOT ON YOUR LIFE!! Smoking has
actually increased! Go figure.
I am a people watcher. In the last 5 years, we are seeing more and more young people
with cigarettes in their hands. I’m talking about 12 and 13 year olds. Our soeiety has
formed laws about selling cigs to minors and the results are laughable. If anything, telling
them that they shouldn’t smoke has INCREASED their motivation to do so. Of course,
when I was that age, I did exactly what my elders told me to do: HA HA HA HA HA.
As a last favor, I would ask anyone who has read this essay, what their opinion is as
to it’s effectiveness and what improvements could be made to increase it’s impact. If I
have insulted or belittled the reader who is trying to quit, it may make you uncomfortable
and may not like me for it, but you will not readily forget it: or hopefully the attendant
material. If you have fallen asleep while reading it, something has to be changed.
GOOD LUCK!!
William
PS:
My webpage is http://www.hydrogenguy.com and if you feel this may contribute
to your quitting, any monetary contribution to me would be appreciated. Send a penny
or up to $100,000 to Hydrogenguy, PO Box 542, Santa Margarita, Ca 93453.
If you have any questions, Email
us at william@hydrogenguy.com Our address is : Hydrogenguy, PO Box 542,
Santa Margarita, CA 93453.
Print the form below and return to Net Sales: For The Sake
Of Our Young People
QUESTIONAIRE FOR CIGARETTE SMOKERS and EX-SMOKERS
NOTE: The purpose of this form is to develope strategies to help our youth resist
the habit.
First Name____________ Age_____ Sex M F Race_____________
Occupation________________ Marital Status Married Single Committed
Number of Years You Smoked______
At What Age Did You Start?______
(If You Quit) At What Age Did You Quit?_______
Briefly State Why You Quit_______________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
(If You Have Not Quit) How Many Times Have You Tried (to quit)?_______
Relations Who Smoked Before You Started Smoking
Mother Father Sister Brother Friends Other_________
Describe the Situation When You Had Your First Cigarette?
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
Are There Other Smokers in Your Immediate Family? YES NO
If You Have Quit, Do You Still Crave For a Cigarette? YES NO
Would You Encourage Your Children to Start Smoking? YES NO
Would You Encourage Any Young Person to Start the Habit? YES NO
Why?____________________________________________________
I Would Change This Questionaire By Adding or Deleting the Following
Questions.____________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
Return This Form to: Hydrogenguy PO Box 542 Santa Margarita, CA 93453
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